Comments on: Places to Meet With Singles in Pennsylvania

By: Ocean06

Ocean06 — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 02:24:59 +0000

Here’s what I’m stuck on: why would you care whether random people on the internet think your life is abnormal or not?

Besides that, yes, there are concerning parts of your story. One, I’m surprised that you chose to move in with a man and get pregnant so soon after being in a position to raise 4 children alone. Also, it would seem that your children probably don’t get a lot of one on one time with their remaining parent, which is sad. Remember, we don’t have children just for them to fill a void in our lives.

I hope that you can slow down and really be focused and giving to your children.

And, are you 24 or 23? You mentioned that you were both…
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By: mykatesmom

mykatesmom — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 02:22:59 +0000

Lots of kids have a sibling and/or a parent that died while they were young. Lots of kids grow up with lots of contact between them and their cousins and extended family members.
Whats the big deal here?

Oh, and most 20 year olds don’t have higher order multiples naturally without some intervention, but yeah, it could happen.

None of this sounds all that wierd to me. But still, maybe you are a troll. If you live under a bridge and have a big hairy wart covered nose like most trolls, yes, that WILL affect your children,
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By: phan

phan — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 02:20:59 +0000

made up. NEXT!
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By: Emo-RoXas

Emo-RoXas — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 02:18:59 +0000

Jeese, I can tell why you stop being literate at the end, your hand must be tired.
What is normal? Is it the aspects of normal that we have today, perfection? In that case, nobodies really normal.
I can see that multiple children run in your family… since your sisters had triplets and twins. That’s not very unusual. But you should have been protected better, and waited until your last year of University to get married. It would have been a more logical choice. I think you defiantly have too many children for this day and age, and your children may get teased for that. I remember doing that to one of my characters in my book, and everyone called her parents ‘the rabbits’. My books may be fantasy, but the are still realistic. The same will probably happen with your kids.
I can see problems with disobedience, depression, suicide, drugs and alcohol in your children’s future, I’m sorry to say. The teasing that they get will lead them into this, and it’s hard to pay attention to so many children equally. That’s the problem with having so many siblings, you get left out a lot.
I can’t say that your life is weird, but it is certainly complicated, and not the lifestyle that most would choose, nor would I choose it thinking on a logical side. One thing that I would have done differently would have been (waiting, but I mentioned that before) naming your child was wasn’t alive past the womb. It would have honored him/her greatly. I would of named him/her Gabriel, after god’s close angel.

But, your family is it’s own normal. You seem to be dealing with it very well in the present, but I’ve warned you about the future. Now that I’ve warned you, don’t make those mistakes!
Good luck in life,
Rainbow-RoXas
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to tessa: What are you talking about, this life is possible. Her past question, she says that she has quadruplets and twins, just like she said here.
Maybe you were being ignorant and looking at the answers, were she answered about a seven year old and so on?

By: nyclee418

nyclee418 — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 02:16:59 +0000

well some people would look at your life as a well lived one and interesting. It'd make a good book. Weird no and I don;t think you need help or your children will be weird.
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By: kelsey

kelsey — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 02:14:59 +0000

Sorry, but it sounds pretty far-fetched
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By: tessajanell

tessajanell — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 02:12:59 +0000

TROLL ALERT!!!!! What you are is a liar. If you are going to make things up you might want to hide the questions you asked before so that people can't go look back at you and see that you are a troll. I do think that you have a very good imagination though, maybe you should trying writing instead of lying to people who are all here to help
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By: jqp

jqp — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 02:10:59 +0000

You should call brad and angelina!
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By: Cookie On My Mind

Cookie On My Mind — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 02:08:59 +0000

I'm sorry I got confused after umm... I think the first couple of lines!
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By: #1_mommy

#1_mommy — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 21:06:16 +0000

Is my family normal, if not what isn’t normal about it? ?
I am 24 years old and I live in Pennsylvania. I moved to Holland when I was 1 year old. A year later I moved to Wales, England, then 2 years later moved to Holland again. I stayed there until I was 5 and then moved back to my home town where I was born. I went to school. Every summer i visited family from holland or wales. I turned 18 and couldn’t wait to have kids and start my family but I knew I had to go to college first. So I went (and am still going) to medical school. Once I had turned twenty I was happily married for 1 year with my best friend since 6th grade, Byron. At 20 years old i was into my 3rd year of college and i figured out i was pregnant. The day I figured out I was pregnant was my 1 1/2 years after my wedding. I had a huge feeling that something unusual was going to happen. I went to the doctors and lone and behold she started to count 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 HOLY SH** im has quintuplets??!! That really scared me because I heard of so many people who had multiples not live. So 7 months later i had 4 babies. i thought wait, where is the 5th. it died 8 ( i never got to meet my 3rd son…
um.. yea so i named my kids;
(*oldest to youngest*)
–Jakob- Michael [ YAK-ub] (named after my dutch- great grandfather
nickname- jac [zock]

– Aaralinn- Maria [air-a-LYNN]

– Chanel- Renee [shanell ranay]

– Aaden- Jacob [aiden jaycob]

i was still 20 years old, married for 1 1/2 years and i had 4 2 month old children when i got a phone call from the place byron worked at, he was dead. he fell from a machine and fell on his skull. He died instantly (broken neck) That is 2 deaths in about 2 months… i didnt know what to do. I lived with my sister and kept up with school and my jobs.

My life changed that day. Know I look at life a different way. I dont hold grudges because you never know what will happen.
Today I am not a single mother anymore I am a 23year old still going to school to be an rn. The quadruplets are going on 3 years old and it is about to be the anneversery of, our 3 1/2 year anneversery, my husband dieing, and one of my children not surviving. I moved into large house with my fiancee, ryan. I love him so much. my life is hectic but wonderful and i wouldnt change it for the world. my sister now has triplets and 3 other kids my other sister died, my other sister has twins and 2 kids and my other sister has 3 kids. we always get together everyweekend and my sisters watch my kids while i am at school. i return the favor. i own a small buisness called abcs after-school where i help kids with school like a toturing service for all ages preschool-12. it is fun. i own a hotel with my 3 sisters that is a big hit in my town because there is a spa and resterant. i am pregnant with twins and i adopted twins. i just cant have enough children haha
my life might be very unreal to some but for me, its my life and i would have it no other

people say that it is weird and i am getting worried that my children are going to be weird and unusual when they get older?

please help me!